What You Will Get
What You Will Get
Sometimes you don't need someone to tell you what to do. You need someone who will listen, ask the right questions, and help you see the situation more clearly.
When you call Ask Barbra, you'll get a real conversation with someone who has spent more than 40 years listening to men and women talk about dating, relationships, communication, breakups, and everything in between.
Years of experience
An Honest Perspective
I'm not going to automatically take your side or simply tell you what you want to hear. I'll listen to what's happening and give you my genuine perspective—even when it may be something you haven't considered.
A Judgment-Free Conversation
Relationships can be complicated. You should be able to talk openly about what happened, what was said, what you did, and how you're feeling without being embarrassed or judged.
Help Seeing the Other Side
Having advised both men and women for decades gives me a unique perspective. Sometimes understanding how the other person may be viewing the situation can completely change how you respond to it.
Clarity Before You React
When emotions are high, it's easy to send the text, make the call, confront someone, or say something you wish you could take back.
Call me first.
We'll slow the situation down, look at what you actually know versus what you may be assuming, and talk through your options before you decide what to do next.
How Are They
Treating You?
Check the signs…
Barbra says…
“Stop trying to decode their words. Look at the pattern of their behavior.”
Don’t text them before you talk to me first!
Are they making time for you?
Are they making plans in advance?
Are they introducing you to their friends and family?
Do they follow through on what they say?
Do they check in because they want to — not only when it's convenient?
Do they make you feel included in their life?
Do they listen when something matters to you?
Do their actions match their words?
Are they just using you?
Are they love bombing you?
Someone Who Will Ask the Right Questions
My job isn't to run your relationship for you. It's to help you think more clearly about it.
What do you really want?
Are their actions matching their words?
Are you being treated the way you want to be treated?
Is this relationship moving in the direction you want your life to go?
Sometimes the right question brings more clarity than a hundred opinions.
Real Advice for Real Life
No games. No judgment. No complicated relationship jargon.
Just a genuine conversation, an honest perspective, and practical guidance to help you make a decision you can feel good about.
You make the decision. I help you see it more clearly.